About My Friend

Question:



I have a question. What do I do when I have a friend that yells at me every week? Because it feels like I did sonething wrong which i didn't. A lot of the times I feel bad for what I did.



Answer:



It sounds like your friend has some issues in her heart that she’s not settling. A healthy friendship is one where both people are honest and communicating with each other. The truth is that no one is perfect and in friendships you know that’s reality. True friends are people who know the good and bad about you but are your friends anyway. It sounds like this person is trying to control you by putting you down. You don’t have to take that. I know you want friendship and that’s what makes this hurt, but she is not being a real friend to you. The next time you see her, prepare your mind ahead of time and let her know you are not going to take this yelling that she is doing. Let her know you want to be her friend but she is not going to put you down like this. Be praying that if there’s anything that is in her life that is hurting that she be honest about it. Being a friend isn’t about just being nice, it’s about being real. You be the friend first by being real and call her on her wrong.


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