Lonely

Question:



I've just been struggling in the relationship I'm in now. It's like I really love him but he keeps hurting me and hurting me and I always take him back.. but I started praying that I have strength to just leave for good and for God to help my broken heart. But I still take him back so I'm at a point where I'm just crying everynight and I have no one to tlk to about this and I really don't no what to do because now this realationship is leading me away from God because I feel as though He isn't helping. I know I should be patient and I can see that the devil is getting to me threw my resentment and anger and sadness because he sees that I am weak , so I'm becoming depressed. I just need someone to help me, to give me good spiritual advice because I feel that I have nothing a no one, and the thing is I'm hiding all this from my family because I really can't talk to them about things like this. So please I'm just calling out for help so whatever you have to say I'm hear to listen.



Answer:



The guy you are seeing now is taking advantage of you and he will continue to do so if you continue to take him back. He sees that you are feeling needy and he’s using you as a “safety net” in case the one’s he’s lusting after doesn’t work out. You have to let go of the fear of being alone for a couple of reasons. (1) You belong to God. You are His temple in bodily form and He promises that He will never leave you or let you down. HE is the One who is provides all your needs, and He is the One you need to trust to bring you and the one He has prepared for you together in His perfect timing. (2) You are not designed to carry this burden. It’s clear that you see this is weighing you down. God says that you need to give your burdens to Him, He loves you more than you can imagine and He is the only one who can set you free from this burden. (3) Fear does not come from the Lord. The only thing that this is blurring your vision from seeing the love God is ready to pour into your heart. His love casts out all fear. You already have access to His love and nothing is going to separate you from Him. It’s just a matter of you taking a stand on His love and allowing Him to have His love wash over you. But you have to submit this to the hand of God. Nothing will help you outside of this. If you bring this to His throne, and keep it there, He will take care of everything else. Otherwise, nothing else will help you.

Don't forget, if you have a question you can send it to me at asktheyouthpastor@xtrlive.com plus you can talk to us tonight at www.studenthopeline.com.